is there true love for real

[RINKA]

people travel a thousand mile looking for love. if you are sure you've it , keep it. It doesn't come twice as good as the first time. There is always a flaw some where in every new phase

[German Voodoo]

*edit the thread's title
*guts and feelings would be the same thing
*last time I had this debate on a forum, it lasted weeks and we started talking about the emotive ability of ants
*yes. ants.

No, I don't believe in predestination. I do believe in the chance that two people can be so complimentery to each other that it simply works, and love is the result. I want to believe in true love, but I also don't.

One person out of billions and he could end up being ethnic? No way.

[Amie]

What's wrong with being ethnic Voodoo?

[German Voodoo]

Would you marry an afrikan man? I don't think he'd suit your taste. Nothing wrong with being ethnic. Not my taste by far.

[Amie]

African?  Possibly, depend on his personality obviously.  Culturally it might be a problem, but in terms of ethnicity, not at all. 

[German Voodoo]

I admit, a south afrikan man might be alright, but he'd be white in my view; should he be anything else I simply cannot be with him. I was born with male inclination and I was born not to be attracted to men of color. Shall we argue since I wasn't born with blonde hair, I should shave into skinhead?

[Mark H]

Love is just a minor ailment (like mild flu) you eventually get over it.

[McWawa]

You can find alot of Ture love in Sweden.   I can't go into explicit details, especially as all references would not be of personnal experience but merely anecdotal or conjecture. Many a nordic relationship in the making over Tures of all social standing and age, and more than a few Tures found love and passion long and lasting.


bryan

[CarrieSheppard]

I have found love where I did not expect.  Passion without lust.  Love without demand. 

You never know until you find it.

[Nadine L]

Love...hmmm. Risky, wonderful, amazing, freeing, validating, safe, rare, accepting, unexpected, commitment, friendship...

Can't quite find the correct words.

It sure took a long time to find a lasting, weathering love. I think I have.
 
Nadine

(Sure kissed a lot of frogs  first!)

[Mark H]

Rivit

[Bru]

Geez, the younger members here are SO cynical!  Could it be a defence mechanism??? 

[Nadine L]

Bru,

What do you think, is there true love for real?

Nadine

[Gyppo]

Yes.  But it doesn't always last forever.   I've been there twice.  One I married, one I didn't, and a third one slipped away because for once I let my head rule my heart.

Quote:  "People enter your life for a reason, for a season, or forever."

The great trick lies in recognising each for what it is and never confusing them.  I'm still learning ;-)

Gyppo

PS:  As  for my 'Muse', she is the most constant and fascinating mistress any man could ask for ;-)

[thatollie]

I don't believe in predestination, like V said, "I do believe in the chance that two people can be so complimentery to each other that it simply works, and love is the result."